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Post by observer on Feb 7, 2007 16:36:24 GMT -5
strike one, ban me shoving off now, bye
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sasuke
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Post by sasuke on Feb 7, 2007 18:49:38 GMT -5
........I'm sorry secret agent for making you so mad
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Post by BriteWIngz on Feb 7, 2007 20:10:06 GMT -5
BW ,TW, QM can be mods @ other boards all over the net , but huski can't. BW can snoop and read your PM's (invasion fo privacy) BW can call Huski a neclected child (who' neglecting who with the hours BW,tw spend online) BW was never 14, never lied , never cheated , never did alot of things most normal 14 yr olds do, most adults do not go around the boards harassing 14 yr olds over supposed lies. If an adult did this to one of BW' children I think she would be contacting the interpol I am sure glad Christ gives us more than 3 chances and that i will not have to give an account of my actions towards a 14 yr old in this situation BW shake the dust from your sandals and move on! oh and by the way , it was BW who got Huski banned from DA rumours , gossip, Lies, its all a matter of perspective, I have no other board, for the record. That site has been my baby and I have been there from day one trying to create a nice community. I asked TW and QM to help me admin because I have various health problems and limited time online, yet I need to feel secure that there are no child predators or troublemakers there that would have access to the kids who post there (including my own). They already held staff positions on their own boards but came at my request to help me out. They are not mods, they are admins, and would never, ever, ever use my site to harvest members for their own sites. This is why the staff rule applies to mods and not to admins. I am not sure where you or anyone got the idea that I have boards all over the internet, but I just wanted to clear that up. I am on and offline all day because I work and teach from my computer, but I spend very little time chatting or posting in my forum or anywhere else. TW is only permitted to use the computer for two hours each day, not that it's any of your business. My opinion as to whether or not Huski gets the attention she is seeking at home is sprung from a concern I have had about her for the past two years, because I care(d) about her and have observed behavior that her mother did not seem to take notice of (her mother was a friend of mine as well.) Her own brother shares many of the concerns I have tried to voice to her mother in the past, and he also feels that her parents do not seem to notice her cries for attention. I do not mean to say that she is not well cared for or provided for, it's just that her emotional needs seem to go unfulfilled and she seeks to fulfill them, sometimes in inappropriate outlets, online. I do think that to some extent this is a form of neglect, for children need more than nice homes and toys and clothes, they need parents to be plugged into their little everyday concerns as well. I do not read my member's PMs. It is not possible for me to do so without disabling their accounts, and I would not do that anyway. I did check to see if Huski had logged into her account after she was banned because a staff member told me that she had admitted still having access to the board. Please do not make false allegations. I was 14 once, yes, though for the record, Huski is 12. It was never my intention to harass her for lying, but merely for the slander I see her posting all over the internet to stop. If someone were lying about you in the malicious way she was lying about me, I am quite sure you would eventually come to feel you had not choice but to set the record straight in your own defense. I reported one such slanderous post that she made on dA, however they chose to ban her not only because such posts are a violation of the terms of service, but also because she does not meet their minimum age requirements (as she stated on her profile page). That is not my rule, it is theirs. If she had not made such a post, she would not have gotten herself banned by her own actions. Again, her actions and mistakes are laid upon me as my fault. I'm sorry, but that just isn't right. I have no control over dA or anything that they do. I forgave her for breaking the rule three times, she was the one who chose to become slanderous and malicious when her staff position was taken away. She was more than welcome to stay and be a regular member, but as always, if she can't be one of the most special one there, she doesn't want any part of it. In her mind it was better to make me out to be the bad guy who fired her because I hate her than to admit she had made a mistake and ask for forgiveness. Inspite of that, I do forgive her. It took some time for God to soften my heart, but I do. I have shaken the dust from my feet, and I am publicly stating that I do not wish any of my staff or members to try to defend me or protect me from Huski. Please do not post in this thread further or participate in this debate. I do not wish anyone to bring shame to the name of Christ in an attempt to defend me. Christ knows the intentions of my heart and knows that I only want to do the right thing, whatever it is that will honor Him. I don't care what she says, what anyone says. The people who know me, and my God, know that I am not whom she tries to make me out to be. I was angry, yes, hurt, yes, but I just want to walk away without letting hurt or bitterness take root in my heart. Christ said to turn the other cheek, and so I am turning mine. Regardless of how you feel, my staffers, I am sternly asking that you walk away from this now. Turn the other cheek and pray that you will find forgiveness in your heart.
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Post by secret agent on Feb 7, 2007 20:12:39 GMT -5
"Observer", i dont even know what the hell you meant just then but whatever.
As for you, "Sasuke", its alright. I just hate it when people dont listen to me and i clearly stated to stay out of the situation as did my friends. I apologize for my rudeness as well but i do not regret it.
As for Huski, Quasi has stated that she isn't posting anymore bad things about us as far as we can see which i am grateful for. in a way, i almost take that as an apology in itself but in another sense, she could just be ignoring us which is why i am fighting. i need an open apology. No one tramples over my friends with such injustice while i'm here. not without getting a bit of lip anyways. >(
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SweepBlackDustSecret Agent
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Post by SweepBlackDustSecret Agent on Feb 7, 2007 20:18:48 GMT -5
*reads brite's post* I'm sorry brite, i just couldn't stand peole walking all over you when they should be respecting you as an adult and as the person you are. But not only that, i was standing up for twirly and EVERYONE else. If you wish for me to stop i suppose i will but if anything else bad happens, i'll argue it out because i think that some of the most famous words are the most true: "Justice delayed is Justice denied." I can't put an injustice off like that or else i'm exactly as injust.
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Post by Brite Wingz on Feb 7, 2007 20:43:31 GMT -5
*reads brite's post* I'm sorry brite, i just couldn't stand peole walking all over you when they should be respecting you as an adult and as the person you are. But not only that, i was standing up for twirly and EVERYONE else. If you wish for me to stop i suppose i will but if anything else bad happens, i'll argue it out because i think that some of the most famous words are the most true: "Justice delayed is Justice denied." I can't put an injustice off like that or else i'm exactly as injust. I know that, sweetie, and I do appreciate your support and love. I know you've "got my back," but the world is not a just place. As a Christian, you have to remember that. Even still "never look for justice but never cease to give it." If you are waiting for her to apologize, you will probably be waiting for the rest of your life. She has convinced herself that she is right and we are wrong, so she doesn't think she needs to apologize. You're going to have to accept that and move on. Thanks for honoring my request and walking away. I do think that it is the right thing to do:-)
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Wanderer
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Retribution
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Post by Wanderer on Feb 8, 2007 15:50:49 GMT -5
I cannot believe any of you people. The only one whom I believe is dealing with this situation the right way is BriteWingz everyone else is just adding more fire to the flame. Stop talking about maturity like you know what it is, little child. Telling me to shut up. I'M trying to end it. By proving my point. There will never be a true resolution unless this conflict is resolved instead of dropped and forgotten. for this to happen, everyone has to realize their actions. I realize BW and TW already are aware of the steps they are taking/taken. so SHUT YOUR F'ING FACE BEFORE I HAVE TO CALL YOU OUT TOO. NO. ONE. IS. TALKING. TO. YOU. PEOPLE. WHO. WEREN'T. INVOLVED. stop SHOVING YOUR WAY IN AND GO AWAY. STOP READING THIS. GO. And you wanna know what? Secret Agent is only under an assumed name right now. I have everything to do with this just as BW and TW. You're only taking up huski's side because you're blind. I'm not brain washing you. but huski is. BRAIN WASHING IS POSTING OPINIONS AND LIES/HALF TRUTHS SO AS TO GET THE HIGHER PUBLIC OPINION. Which, according to the VERY FIRST POST made in this thread, is EXACTLY was huski was doing. BRAINWASHING? HAHAHAHA. you guys are being taken as fools by those you think are your friends and dont even realize it. Ha. I laugh. Now, run along. *wave wave* Maturity? Maturity is NOT continuing to argue. Maturity is to let sleeping dogs lie. Don't accuse others of not being mature when you yourself aren't. (Note:I would like to say that I do not believe that I am mature, which is why I feel the need to enforce, as you probably did.) You three were not involved in the situation at all, so I suggest you leave this conversation to the people who actually were. Both of the posts were contradictory. So, we don't have anything to do with this? This is a message board that WE go to, not YOU. WE have buisness here. Those "three" that are't involved have every right to be. This is their site, it is their buisness. Anything that happens on their site is their buisness. Here's an example: From what I understand Britewingz owns her own site correct? That's like saying that if guests started arguing there, then she, or anyone else there, has no buisness getting involved or banning one of the members. ~ ~ I am sorry for bringing back thi argument, but I am not one whom can hold her tounge. Britewingz, I did not mean any offense to you, and I do believe your arguments are solid. As for everyone else: Superflous insults do nothing but add to the hate. I have reported this entire situation to the admin, and request that all of the arguing guest IPs be banned.
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Blue Streaks
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Post by Blue Streaks on Feb 8, 2007 18:04:47 GMT -5
Now now, Wanderer, we needn't take any drastic measures.
Brite Wingz, I understand the rules your forum possesses, but I feel it is only right for me to inform you that none of this was Huski's fault. I gave her the position of Global Moderator here without even letting her know she was being promoted, because of her loyalty and dedication towards this site. I knew nothing of you, your forum, or the strong ties she had to it, let alone the rules. You state that even though she couldn't do anything about her new rank here, she still should not have logged on and continued to chat. With all due respect, I think that that is completely ridiculous. I know Huski's heart, she is a good staff member and a great person, and I know she would not simply neglect her position here because of your rules. She would try to make us both happy, moderating both here and there, which is exactly what she did. She did not want to let down either of us.
All I am saying is to give her a second chance. Were it not for me, none of this would have happened in the first place. I will remove her rank here affectively immediately, as long as you take her back as a member of your staff.
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Post by Sweep on Feb 8, 2007 19:33:58 GMT -5
I'm letting this go at Quasi and Brite's request. However,
No. I dont care about those three belonging to this site. It's not their business becasue the problem doesnt HAVE to DO with the site. it just so happens that this was posted on it. so on the contrary, they should have stayed out instead of getting into it.
I dont wish to argue that any further. Only point it out by my perspective. in the end, who's business it was is only an opinion which can't be argued.
Hasta Luego Amigos. T.T
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Post by flaming angel on Feb 8, 2007 23:39:15 GMT -5
< *SweepBlackDust> XD they are < *SweepBlackDust> but anyways :0 < *TwirlyWhirl> it's not going anywhere. < *TwirlyWhirl> I know. XDDD but they're too stupid. < *SweepBlackDust> FIRE < *SweepBlackDust> im so upset that i had to let that argument go. i was just getting started on flaming the place. kukuku |D
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Post by SweepBlackDust on Feb 9, 2007 23:58:03 GMT -5
If you, Flaming Angel, actually KNEW what that was about. ooh. You know, we were finally trying to make peace and you have to try and ruin it huh? Thanks alot for being the immature *cencored* of this problem. But if you must know, Twirly and i had been PMing each other as a joke saying that if brite hadn't stopped the fighting i probably would have "burned down" the place. The reason Twirly said 'they're stupid' was because i said 'some people can really be ignorant. at least ignorance is bliss.' and she said 'ignorance is stupid'. It was suppose to be an inside joke. Otherwise, that conversation on how 'stupid' you guys 'were' would have lasted ALOT longer. TRUST me. Dont belive me? As Twirly yourself! It was suppose to be funny and between us. If you want to spy on someone, spy on your boyfriend/girlfriend cheating on you because you apparently aren't trustworthy enough to keep one.
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Post by Twirly on Feb 10, 2007 0:02:18 GMT -5
Um, yeah, what Sweep said. And that's stooping kinda low for you to try to spy on people. ;P
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Post by TailsStar on Feb 10, 2007 0:37:54 GMT -5
@ Blue Streaks, we understand where you're coming from, but Huski wasn't trying to make both you and BW happy. BW has known Huski for 2 Years on a personal level, many of which are not mentioned here. Huski delbrately went behind BW's back and lied to her, the Staff at BW's Chao Garden has had this problem with Huski TWICE already. 3 Strikes, she's out.
I don't wish to argue, but I simply stated simple Facts of the whole situation. Huski isn't who you think she is, and for Brite to know her on a Personal Level is far beyond your Undertstanding. You're a Mature Admin for the Information you know on this whole Situation, however, you only see a small glimpse of the big problem that truly happene. As part of the BW Staff, we've fought Huski through all of this and see the big picture, especially BriteWingz and TwirlyWhirl.
So please, let's let this die down and forget Huski ever existed. She brought this upon herself, and I do not wish for Huski's stupid actions to cause an uproar on your Site. She is a liar and backstabber, and has gone back into hiding, not willing to face the damage she's caused. I wish you could've seen her True Colors, because behing her "kindness" she's got some serious problems with reality. I bid you farewell, and to BriteWingz, I'm always on your side.;3 *salute*
NOTE: Who the heck is the "observor" and "flaming angel"? O.o And who are they to call US on Huski's problems when they weren't even THERE! Tch, whatever, let this die, okay? The only person on this Website who had right to speak in this Situation was BlueStreaks, as for Every other Member on this Site you shouldn't have got involved. Do the mature thing, mm'kay? Alright, I'm done.
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Post by chenshui on Jun 27, 2011 21:49:21 GMT -5
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